About the Love Small Penis Blog (LSP)

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The purpose of this blog is to provide a forum for men (and the women who love them) to be able to openly discuss “their” small penis in a mature, responsible and thoughtful way. Most of those who participate on this blog are in long-term, committed relationships and have learned to have fun and excitement in their sex lives.

Regrettably, as most of you probably know, there are very few places on the Internet where you can find any useful or helpful information at all on the small penis. To be clear, this blog is NOT a small penis humiliation site.  We do not condone, encourage, promote or advocate the degrading or emasculation of ANY man.  Instead, what we do here is celebrate the small penis, and openly discuss the challenges and advantages of being in a small penis relationship.

If you are new to this blog, and you’re a guy who has not yet fully accepted your small penis, or you’re a woman who is married to a guy who is struggling with this issue, we suggest you begin by reading the articles listed on the tab at the top of this page called “Small Penis 101.”  These articles were specifically written from our point of view and may help you understand the importance of accepting, celebrating and loving “your” small penis.

The other Tabs at the top of the Home Page follow a logical progression as follows:

Small Penis Relationships: These articles take Small Penis 101 to another level.  The articles listed below are written for couples who are in healthy, small penis relationships where both parties accept the man’s small endowment.  These articles were written to provide ideas how on to improve and enhance small penis relationships.   Topics covered include:  small penis sex positions, how to satisfy a woman with a small penis, the importance of sex toys, etc.

Small Penis Teasing (SPT):   The articles below are written for couples who not only accept the small penis in their relationship, they want to recognize it and celebrate it in their sex lives.  These articles explain the concept of Small Penis Teasing, which many couples have come to thoroughly enjoy in their relationships.  Articles in this section include such topics as:  the difference between SPT and SPH, the benefits of an SPT relationship, cock comparisons, the wife’s power in small penis relationships, etc.

Advanced SPT (Kinks, Fetishes, Fantasies and Lifestyles):  The articles included on this list are the “Advanced” SPT topics.  These articles are written for couples who really want to push the sexual envelope and explore topics that many consider taboo.  There are a wide list of topics that fit this list, and some of those include:   Orgasm tease and denial, chastity, panties, withholding sex, “outing,” the increasingly popular lifestyle of cuckolding (both real and fantasy) too, but these categories are more of what we would call “advanced topics,” in that they assume that you have already accepted your small penis, and are now looking for ideas or information on how to improve your sex life.

Of course, we always want to encourage you to share your ideas and thoughts with us on the blog, but if you feel uncomfortable in doing so for whatever reason, please feel free to contact either or both of us via email too.  We are always interested in hearing your ideas, observations and of course your suggestions for future articles.  Again, thanks to all of you who inspire us to continue our efforts.

NOTE (Photos and Images):  Every effort has been made to use photos and images that are in the public domain and not under copyright.  If there is an image that has been used that is under copyright, please let us know and we will remove it immediately.

Please feel free to comment on any article that we post.  Or, if you would rather contact us via email, please feel free to do so at:

Steve:  play613796@aol.com

1Hotwife:  hotwife2013@aol.com

48 Responses to “About the Love Small Penis Blog (LSP)”

  1. source Says:

    This site has got a lot of extremely helpful information on it. Cheers for helping me.

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  4. Neil Says:

    For many years I never knew any difference in my penis size. From the very beginning I have kept it shaved and somewhat hidden. Married a long time and now divorced but in a new relationship with a girl I grew up with and was in my wedding party…that is another story. She calls my Penis Tim after tiny Tim. She has done nothing more but the odd glint in her eyes on the size. I am so at ease with my Penis and have no hang-ups. It is small at 2.5 inch soft as well as uncut (Lucky Me) The Ex never knew what to say about it and I had a hard time getting her to acknowledge that it is small. Having fun with it is special…so one day I will get to live my dream of maybe showing it and seeing the reaction.

  5. ngenghou1962 Says:

    Small penis is not the end of the world. Big or small, black or white, what matters is when the moment comes, it can rise up to the occasion to get the job done and retreat gracefully. Don’t you agree? Would love to link up to you to get your blog updates. Wish you a Happy 2013.

  6. BlijfBeminnen Says:

    Hi, nice blog and good writings!

    Inspiring reads for every sice ;-)

    • play613796 Says:

      Welcome to the Blog! And thanks for the nice comments! :)

      • BlijfBeminnen Says:

        Thank you for welcoming me and sorry for my spelling mistake, of course I meant size. I’m no native English speaker – I’m from The Netherlands – and unfortunately there isn’t much to find in my own language. It might sound strange that in a country that tends to be so open about sex there is so little spoken about sexuality. Your articles about cuckolding, competition and especially fantasy play are very interesting. I learned a lot from them. I started a blog collecting interesting materials or making translations of articles I’ve found to make them available. Unfortunately I don’t have enough time to make more work of it, so I go in small steps.

  7. play613796 Says:

    Not at all, I just need to approve your post! Welcome to the blog!

  8. Davidcase Says:

    I have a very small penis it is 3.8 inches long erect. My girlfriend Brenda will not have sex with me so I masturbate a lot or she lets me perform oral sex on her.

    • 1hotwife Says:

      I cannot imagine ever refusing my husband or boyfriend sex. My husband has a small penis and though I love it and am totally satisfied by it, if it were for some reason unsatisfying I would still want to have sex with him to pleasure him! Are you really okay with this?

  9. Gillbert Says:

    I also have a small penis as its 4″ at its full. My wife no longer lets me have sex with her and thats just as it is.

  10. Jon Says:

    I have enjoyed reading all of this. I am working on being happy with my smaller size. Stuff I’ve read in the past has usually been along the lines of SPH. I can understand the aspect of having others acknowledge how small your penis is-and there is some satisfaction/thrill to that. But I’m not really comfortable with the cruelness of so much of the SPH. I do like your term “teasing”. I guess I’m looking for small penis acknowledgement from my wife, then acceptance, then all out LOVE of my little guy. That would make me a very happy (little) man! 😄

    • play613796 Says:

      Thank you Jon. I will have much more to say about SPH/SPT and the differences between the two. Have you discussed your “little” situation with your wife?

      • Jon Says:

        No, not really. We are currently in therapy. I did mention it in therapy and she said it was a “non-issue”. Which means to her of course, but it isn’t to me. Even the therapist in private basically told me if my wife was happy with it I would just have to learn how to get over it. I think they are both missing the point and the deep effects being (or feeling like) a small-dicked man who doesn’t measure up. But I’m not giving up!!!

      • Jon Says:

        Small penis teasing.

  11. Jon Says:

    Wow-3″ is VERY small! Have you ever seen a doctor about it like for testing? I’ve heard that some very small penises like yours are due to a lack of testosterone in the womb. Maybe some testosterone injections may help.

  12. Jon Says:

    I want to personally thank you for this blog, your honesty and insight. I have only been reading it for a few days but it has helped me SO MUCH! I am trying very hard to accept, love and celebrate my little guy! I do have a question however-in broaching this subject with my wife, would you recommend just giving her this blog to read, think about, then the two of us discuss the contents? Thx!!!

    • play613796 Says:

      Hi Jon,

      Your welcome Jon! This Blog is for guys like you, me and all of the others that have struggled with our small penis “issue.” And as far as your earlier comment, that’s the spirit… don’t give up! The problem with therapists is, many times they just don’t get the issue… especially if it is a male therapist with a normal sized penis himself. You will never be able to “get over it” until you really accept your small size and the limitations that come along with it. Even then, if your wife doesn’t “get it” it can still be an issue in your sex life. Stay the course… can you talk with her in more depth about this sensitive issue? What you both need to understand is a sexual issue/problem for one of you is a problem for both, so it’s best to talk about it in that context.


      • Jon Says:

        I understand Steve. Yeah the one therapist is general and doesn’t seem to understand how deep-rooted (no pun intended) this issue is for me. Obviously I don’t know his penis size and don’t care to! But I would guess if he were small too he would be more sensitive. And yes, I am planning on speaking to her more about it. Possibly asking her to read this blog. I’ll let you know how it goes!

    • Jon Says:

      Well Jay I certainly respect your decision to live your life in a way that makes you and your wife happy. While the thought of a guy with a big cock pleasing my wife can be a turn on, I’m not sure I could handle it in reality. I would feel such deep humiliation and shame-especially him seeing how small I was and laughing. I would want to die. But the thought gives me a boner! :-) Maybe if I was as small as you I would feel differently. May I ask, do other people in your life know how small you are-like friends and family?

    • Jon Says:

      I can “get” you wanting to be even smaller-micro. I have had those fantasies as well. I have experienced having an “innie” when soft. I have mixed emotions of surprise/embarassment/thrill. The ultimate humiliation would be an erection very small and thin and viewed by other’s. Wow! And this is not to be confused with a boys penis-the thrill is a full-grown man (30’s-40’s) with a very tiny erection. 😊

    • Jon Says:

      PS-you could introduce estrogen to make it shrink but this most likely would affect your ability to be erect.

  13. play613796 Says:

    Hi Jay,

    It stands for “Small Penis Teasing” – and I actually coined that phrase because so many guys have expressed a desire for the teasing, but not the humiliation. I believe there is a difference and have written about it previously and there is more to come, so stay tuned!

    • Jon Says:

      Teasing sounds better to me too. I think teasing me about my “little man” could be fun and a turn on but outright, mean-spirited humiliation, telling how I’m worthless as a man would not work in my best interest. Maybe for some, but not for me. I prefer to hear that I have a small penis and it’s beautiful!

      • play613796 Says:

        Hi Jon…. let us know how it goes with your “discussion” with your wife. I’m particularly interested what she would say if she read any of this blog. I wonder if it would help her understand your desires? By the way, I have an upcoming post on the differences between SPH & SPT… so stay tuned.

      • Jon Says:

        We discussed as I shared below-but I didnt
        Have her read any or share about spt.

  14. Jon Says:

    Cool-I def will! We had a swim party with 4 other couples yesterday and as the alcohol flowed the topic went to sex/penis size. The few ladies who responded were ADAMANT that dick size was a non-issue, they don’t care, and that it’s only us guys who think about it. Now, it could be that it just would be too politically incorrect to admit they like bigge ones, or wouldnt want to admit it in front of their average/small husbands. But they are a vocal group and have never withheld their opinion so I tend to believe they were being honest. What I don’t know is what the 2 ladies who didn’t respond think!!!

  15. Jon Says:

    Oops-guess I shared in the penis size thread where we’ve had so much discussion!

  16. Brando Says:

    What is the point? Females in America have the right to their stated preference for a ‘large’ penis and a specific body profile type. Recent study conclusively provided it in Australia.
    Males in America are fools to believe when they compromise in the short run for a marriage, for kids or most importantly for money (aka security) that it will not end in frustration and pain.
    We need to face facts and get everything out in the open even before dating.
    State your penis condition and own it. Force the female to make a conscious decision to accept you or move on.
    This is the first step to uncovering both partners compromises, goals and unspoken frustration.

    • play613796 Says:

      Brando, I wouldnt say men are “fools,” but I definitely agree that you should accept your penis and “own” it. Making sure that your partner “accepts” it will indeed limit or eliminate the unspoken frustration going forward.

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  18. Hal Says:

    I used to have a lot of frustrations being the smallest guy in the locker room. Then later when I could not make my partners cum.
    I was cuckolded by two exes and even by the woman i married. When i met her i had accepted my issue, and being teased about it was something I fantasised about. However I was afraid of telling her about my kink. She discovered it when she out of curiosity went through my browser history.(not a good way for her to find out)
    Since then she has at times driven me wild demanding that i use toys on her, or give her oral then teasing me for my size. We have great sex because of SPT. And thanks to her I found this blog recently. This blog has helped us both a lot and I look forward to future posts.

  19. pete Says:

    Hi – have just ‘cum’ across this site and been chatting to hotwife — there is so much useful info here, I for one thought my fantasy about being ‘outed’ was unique. Question, did any other guys compare themselves to male family members?

  20. mestirsugarman Says:

    I have enjoyed this blog alot. Just one thing has struck me about dick size and how people feel about it. I am very pleased with mine. I will not say that it’s big or small to me it’s the proper size. Everyone else is either freakishly large or a bit undersized. See thats owning a penis lol

  21. play613796 Says:

    Hello Mestirsugarman,

    Thank you for the kudos! Indeed you do “own” your penis! :) I wish every guy could get to that level of acceptance. They would have a lot less anxiety if they did – and, they might discover a lot more fun too!

  22. Ryan Says:

    I was wondering if you could add a search feature for the site. I was trying to find posts/comments & articles which mention couples who incorporate Chastity play into their small penis relationships.

    • play613796 Says:

      Hi Ryan, Welcome to the Blog and thank you for your comments. To answer your question, the topic of male chastity has not come up – yet, but we are planning to do an upcoming article on this very topic since it seems to be very popular. To answer your specific suggestion there is such a feature on ou Blog already – it’s the Category feature on the left side of the page near the top. Since the topic of Male Chastity has not come up yet, there is no caterory for it listed, but when we do post this upcoming article, we will add a “Category” called Male Chastity which will make it easier for you to locate articles by subject matter going forward. Anytime we post a new article we try to categorize it appropriately even if it touches on a variety of subjects. That way, people can filter through specific categories and find topics that interest them. Until now, the subject of male chastity has only come up in a few isolated comments, and even then, the comments were not very detailed or thorough, so stay tuned for an upcoming article on this subject. If you have something specific you would like for us to address about the topic, feel free to send us a private email. Again, welcome to the Blog Ryan!


      Steve & 1Hotwife
      Steve: play613796@aol.com
      1Hotwife: Hotwife2013@aol.com

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