Amazing Small Penis Sex Positions

How many times have you heard sexually frustrated couples cite penis size as a major roadblock to their sexual satisfaction?  Regrettably, it’s an all too common problem.  He thinks, “I’m too small to satisfy her,” while she thinks, “He’s too small to satisfy me.” While there may often be other variables at play, couples rarely sit down and discuss their sexual frustrations openly to come up with creative solutions to address their frustrations. If they did, they might discover something as simple as trying different sex positions might lead to much more sexual satisfaction for both of them.  Just like a man who has a big penis may be uncomfortable and even painful to a woman in certain positions, a man with a small penis may be unsatisfying or unfulfilling in some positions as well.  But, this doesn’t have to spell doom.  It can create a wonderful opportunity for you.

If you do an Internet search for small penis sex positions, you might find a few here or a few there, but rarely do you find a real variety of positions. So, I have scoured the Internet and rounded up a virtual smorgasbord of sex positions that are ideal for the lesser endowed man.  These positions allow for more friction and deeper penetration which prove very satisfying to both men and women alike.  Before I begin, here are a few “preliminary” tips for both men and women to help you along on the road to better sex!

“The right combination of foreplay and stimulation can make a woman worship

a small penis just as readily as a large one.”

Tip # 1: Sexual Confidence:  One of the biggest issues women have with men who are small endowed is not the size of their penises, but their lack of sexual confidence.  Just because a man has a small penis does not mean he has to forego his sexual confidence.  A man, who believes he is inadequate and cannot sexually satisfy a woman, probably won’t be able to.  So, if you’re a guy, remember how important this is.  If you’re a woman, encourage your lover to be more confident.

Tip # 2:  Oral Play and Manual Stimulation:  Many men with small penises have already learned to compensate for their small stature by providing their women with an unsurpassed mastery of oral sex and awe inspiring manual stimulation skills. But, some men have not quite learned the importance of these skills.  Obviously, there’s a great deal more to sex than just penetration, and most men fully recognize the many benefits of foreplay. The man with a smaller-sized penis should take maximum advantage of this, prolonging foreplay until his partner is fully and completely aroused; the closer she is to orgasm (or perhaps has even had one or more) before the start of actual penetration, the easier it will be for her to climax during intercourse.

Foreplay should include anything and everything a woman enjoys.  If you’re a woman, make sure you let him know that kissing and caressing are always appreciated, but don’t limit yourself to the old routine.   Try to spice things up.   Try engaging him in a little “dirty sex talk” to start, and be sure to have your favorite sex toys on hand.   And, if you’re a bit kinky, you may want to engage your man to try some sensual biting or even a bit of a spanking. Whatever works for you!  And guys, the key here is to lavish her with the kind of attention you know she responds well to; you want to get her so hot and wet she will be begging you for sex.

Even men who are masters at oral sex often times neglect stimulating the clitoris beforehand with manual stimulation.  Ladies, have you ever let your man watch you masturbate?  If not, why not?  Encourage your man to stimulate your clitoris manually and don’t be shy about showing him how to do it. If you are able to climax at least once before you move on to penetration; this will help alleviate any performance anxiety he might experience once you’re ready for intercourse.

Tip # 3:  Being Sexually Aggressive:  Many men believe (incorrectly) that all women (including their own) prefer a big penis.  After all, a man with a bigger penis can touch places inside a woman we are simply incapable of, so a bigger penis must be preferred right?  Not necessarily.  For many women there is an appeal to men with big cocks, but it has more to do with their sexual confidence, attitude and aggressiveness than the size of his cock.  It’s a major psychological turn on for a woman. There is no reason why a man with a small penis cannot be supremely confident, aggressive and even dominant in the bedroom.  Sometimes women just want to be desired, pursued and taken aggressively.

Tip # 4:  Recognize the Benefits of Being Small:  All of us are self-conscious about our bodies for one reason or another.  Women want bigger boobs, a smaller dress size, etc.  Men always want a bigger cock, no matter how big they already are.  Men with small cocks need to recognize the benefits.  It’s much easier for a woman to provide oral sex on you.  You also have the freedom to provide your woman with deep strokes and hard thrusts which she loves – something she might not enjoy with a larger man because it might be too painful.  Because she doesn’t have to worry about being impaled by a cock that is too large liberates her mind to enjoy the sexual experience.  So, celebrate the advantages!

Tip # 5:  Get in Shape:  Exercising regularly and eating right, will definitely improve your sex life.  Every man wants a “hot wife,” but one woman said to me, “I want a hot husband.” So there should be no double standard here, both of you should get in (and stay in) good shape. And while you’re at it, a few kegel exercises never hurt anyone either.  So girls and guys alike – do the pelvic squeeze.  A strong pelvic floor makes for tighter penetration, better control, more powerful orgasms, and good wood.

Here are some excellent Small Penis Sex Positions.  If you want to have some fun, you and your partner should try them all and discuss each one.  Do you like a particular position? If so why, if not why?  You might just find that there are several positions listed here that are ideal for you.

Enjoy!

Man on Top Positions:

(1)  The Lady’s Squeeze

How to do it: He sits back on his heels while you lie on your back. He lifts your hips and enters you. You place both legs together over one of his shoulders. He stabilizes your legs so that they don’t slide off his shoulder.

What’s good about this?  Women often like having their legs together during sex. You can increase labial pressure and do amazing Kegel tricks that are beneficial to you and him.

If you manage this position you’ll get deep, firm penetration, albeit with less movement control on your part.   Because your legs are together this may increase friction where it’s needed.

(2)  Missionary Madness (Standard Grade)

Basic: You lie on your back with him on top of you. Both your legs are straight, with yours on the outside.

The squeeze: As above but with your legs on the inside and his on the outside. The closer together your legs are the tighter everything will fit.

Legs of victory: Extend your legs straight up towards the ceiling. Good for deeper penetration, but it will make you tired.

The vice: For those less passive. Wrap your legs around him to pull him closer and to control the movement.

One bent, one straight: If you want to keep clitoral contact (which is difficult with both legs bent) and more depth (which is difficult with both legs straight) – why not compromise?

Leg up: When you want to make the missionary all Kama Sutra-ish: throw one leg over his shoulder. Be prepared to cramp, though.

Knees and ears: Put both legs over his shoulders. As they say, a true lady always crosses her ankles… Around her lover’s neck.

(3)  Missionary Madness (Set of Nine)

You will love this position!  Nine shallow strokes where he inserts only the head of the penis. Because most of the nerve endings are focused in the first three centimeters of your vagina, you’ll find this surprisingly rewarding. Then he thrusts the entire length of his penis in once. (By now you’ll be just about gasping for it.)  And by the way, because he is only inserting the head of his penis initially, by the time he inserts all of it, even a very small penis will feel huge!   Then he gives eight shallow strokes where he inserts only the head. And two deep thrusts.  And seven shallow strokes. And three deep thrusts. Six shallow strokes.  Four deep thrusts.   And so on.  When he reaches nine deep thrusts, it’s called a Set of Nine.   Now pat yourselves on the back and sink into a blissful sleep.

(4)  Missionary (Knees Bent)

How to do it:  The woman tilts her pelvis down, aiming her vaginal opening toward the mattress, and holds her bent knees up toward her chest while keeping her head elevated on pillows.  This will increase pressure against her vaginal walls and shorten her vaginal canal.

(5)  Table Fun

How to do it:  The woman should sit on the edge of the table with her legs stretched open to accept her man’s penis.  When the man’s penis is insider her vagina, she should then bend backward and wrap her legs around her man for deeper penetration.

What’s good about this?  This position offers several variations.  The woman can also lie flat on the table, allowing the man to either (a) put both hands on her hips and accelerate intercourse, or (b) free both hands to fondle her breasts.  Either the man or woman is also free to stimulate the clitoris as well.

(6)  The Rabbit Ears

How to do it:  Lay your woman down on her back, spread her thighs and draw her legs up until her knees are close to her ears. Slip a pillow under her bottom, as this will place her vagina at an angle better suited for this small penis sex position. When you penetrate her, it will feel as though you’re filling her vagina completely. Once sex starts to get wild, however, it can be difficult for a woman to hold her legs in that position. It’s suggested using your own arms to hold her knees in place; simply place either arm in the crook of her knee before you brace your hands on the bed.

Bite-sized tip: This is an excellent position for her to masturbate in. You may want to encourage her to slip a hand between your bodies to stimulate her clitoris while you’re rocking her world from inside.

(7)  The Hook-Up

How to do it:  Warning:  This position requires a bit of flexibility.  With you on your back, he enters you as he would for the missionary position but instead of keeping your legs on the bed, raise them up and rest them against his chest, or if you’re feeling really athletic, slide a pillow under your hips and hook your knees over his shoulders.  He can penetrate you deeply and if you cross your ankles, it’ll tighten the vaginal canal, making it feel even better.

(8)  The Amazing Butterfly

How to do it:   The key to taking flight is lining up correctly with your lover. First, find a place where you can lie down and he can stand in front of you. The catch: It’s got to be somewhere that puts your pelvis a foot lower than his — maybe your bed (if it’s a high one) or a desk, counter, or even the hood of a car. Then lift your legs and rest them on his shoulders. Tilt your pelvis upward so that your back forms a straight line angling up toward him, and your crotches meet. Have him place his hands under your hips, so he can hold your booty at the perfect angle while he thrusts.

Why You’ll Love It:  The Amazing Butterfly is primo for unequaled ecstasy without high-energy commitment. The pelvic tilt gives his penis full access to your vagina and builds in more fluttery friction for both of you. When done very slowly, it’s completely dreamlike. The result? An orgasm that feels like you’re flying.

Woman on Top 

(1)  Classic Woman on Top

How to do it:  There are certain positions sex therapists recommend more often when a man has a smaller penis. Surprisingly, the woman on top is an excellent position.  It’s surprising because when the woman begins moving up and down, the small endowed man will normally slip out, leaving them both frustrated.  They key to this position being successful is the woman should “gyrate” around his penis instead of moving up and down. Called the “Vadavaka” in the Kama Sutra, this position is the classic “woman on top” position but also implies voluntary vaginal muscles contractions by the woman to increase sensation; like a mare cruelly gripping a stallion, your lover traps and milks your penis with her vagina.  This position also allows for the man to play/kiss his partners breasts.

(2)  Cocoon

How to do it:

Step 1:  He kneels on the bed on both knees and sits back comfortably on his heels. You sit astride his lap with your feet on the bed behind him. You kiss and caress.

Step 2:  He embraces you closely, locking his arms around your back. You lift your feet off the bed and lean back into his arms, raising your legs as high as you can to enable penetration.

Step 3:  And now he rocks you gently back and forth.

(3)  Cowgirl

How to do it:  In the cowgirl position, lean forward arching her back and resting your weight on your elbows.  This will create a lot of clitoral stimulation.  Lift up your legs so that she can hold onto your knees for leverage, then she can move in a circular motion to increase that clitoral stimulation.

(4)  Reverse Cowgirl

How to do it:  Your partner lies on his back while you straddle him, facing his feet. Ideally his head should be on a pillow, so that he can enjoy the sight of your buttocks rising and falling. Guide him inside you and let the rodeo begin! He’ll find the view particularly erotic and you’ll be able to stimulate your clitoris manually.

Although this position can be painful if your lover has a large penis, it is perfect if the man is lesser endowed. This position is also great to try in front of the mirror.

(5)  Reverse Missionary

How to do it:  The woman lies down on her lover.  The groin areas will create a lot of stimulation and friction, reaching the clitoris as well.   Also, she can control the angles and movements.  Since she is lying forward, there will be a great angle towards the G. spot.  She should move in circular or back-and-forth motion to reduce the possibility of the smaller penis from slipping out.

(6)  Forward Bend:

How to do it:    This position is like that move in yoga class where you bend forward to stretch out your legs except now you’ve got a man underneath you.  With him lying on his back, lower yourself so that your legs are stretched in front of you.  This is the less physically demanding version of the Hook-up – at least for the woman.  He’ll be able to manipulate your motion by grabbing your hips and you can use your hands to prop yourself up a bit.  This is a good one for him because again, he can penetrate you deeper with his small penis.

Rear Entry Positions:

(1)  Leaping Lizard (Standard Grade)

How to do it:  You begin by kneeling on the bed. Then, lean forward until your forearms, chest and head is resting comfortably on the bed (but turn your face sideways s you can breathe).  Yes, it does remind of a yoga position.  And yes, it does mean your butt will be high up in the air.

Bear with me, because you see; now your vagina is lengthened and fully opened to receive your lover.  And yet, your body is buttressed against his vigorous thrusts.  And, because you’re supporting yourself, it means his hands are free to do all sorts of interesting things to you.  Plus, it’s comfy.  Added bonus:  Your inner vixen will be thrilled at the innate wantonness of this posture. 

(2)  Leaping Lizard (Higher Grade)

How to do it:  Lie flat on your stomach with your legs together. Get your partner to lay full length on top of you.  His weight should be distributed equally along your body but if he’s still too heavy, ask him to support himself by placing his forearms on either side of you.

Now you’re trapped inside the cage of his body.  Purrrr.

Arch your back and tilt your pelvis, while keeping your legs together, to give him access to your vagina.  Keep up the pelvic rocking and squeeze every time he enters you.  And squeeze.  And relax, and squeeze, and relax.

Because your legs are closed tightly together, it allows a snugger fit for a smaller penis.  Remember though, this position may seem meeker than the standard grade version, but trust me, it’s harder.  Tip:  For stability, hold onto the edge of the mattress – or whatever’s in reach – and use it as your anchor to help him thrust.  Added bonus:  All the pelvic tilting and arching and squeezing of the pelvic floor provide an excellent core workout.

(3)  The Tortoise

How to do it: The Tortoise position is slow, hard, smooth and sensual, but it’s also really fun to do!  And if you and your partner are having a little trouble doing it, it might have you laughing instead of screaming with pleasure. Either way, there’s nothing to lose!

Lay flat on the bed, face down and let him straddle you from behind. You should be able to feel the pressure of his body weight on your buttocks and hips. Your legs should be straight and closed, so that when he enters you from behind, it’s a tight squeeze.  Make sure you have something to grip onto, like the top of the mattress, because although the thrusting should be slow and smooth, The Tortoise is designed for deep penetration so the thrusting may be hard as well.  Your movements should become synchronized, this means that as he moves forward to penetrate deeply, move your body backward to increase the intensity of the sex.

Why you’ll like it:  Even though he is on top and is evidently in control, it is you who guides him. You have complete control over your own clitoral stimulation. Between him and the bed sheet, one will give you consistency during sex and the other will give you the exact amount of pleasure you want. Let’s hope the right one is doing the right thing!

Why he’ll like it:  He will be very happy to be taking credit for all of your stimulation. He can heighten your pleasure by opening and closing your legs and this will definitely excite him. He may be turned on by rubbing your back or spanking your buttocks a bit, you may want to ask him not to smack too hard!

How to vary it:  If he uses his forearms to lift himself up, he may be able to give deeper penetration. He can increase the intimacy between the two of you by laying flat on top of you and holding your breasts. This way he can whisper into your ear if you’re into talking during sex.

Drawbacks:  Given the intense movement, a heavier partner may squash you a little, so have him use his upper body strength to keep the weight of his torso off your back. Also, if you’re a little busty on top, you may have some difficulty laying flat.

Tip: A little “dirty” talk can be added fun. Please note that the duvet and pillows here are not required and should be discarded, immediately!

(4)  Standard Doggie

How to do it:  Guys love this position because the view is, well, scenic.  But it’s also great for women whose partner is not the biggest guy in the world.  Doggie Style allows him to penetrate deeply from behind and you can vary the angle he hits and the friction you feel by arching your back, laying your head on the bed or squeezing your thighs together.

Why it feels good for you
When your breasts hang down, blood flow to your nipples makes them extra-sensitive. Also, orgasms feel more intense if his penis hits the sensitive G-spot on the front wall of your vagina.

Why it feels good for him
He gives it full marks for visual stimulation, while his hands are free to stimulate your breasts or clitoris from behind. He loves feeling his pelvis bang against your buttocks and this position also allows for deeper penetration.

(5)  Downward Doggie

How to do it:  Lay face down with legs stretched out and open slightly.  Raise your butt a bit and have him enter, laying face down on top of you.  He can prop himself up with his arms for more range of motion.  This position allows for lots of penetration and friction for both of you and you can stimulate your clitoris against the bed.

(6)  On the Edge of the Bed

How to do it:  The man sits on the edge of the bed with legs spread.  The woman with legs closed backs up onto his penis.  She can either thrust backwards, leaving his hands free to do all sorts of things (like reaching around and fondling her breasts) or he can grab her hips and bring her back to him.  This can be a very intense and satisfying sex position.

6 Responses to “Amazing Small Penis Sex Positions”

  1. Slinky Says:

    Can i just add for those others also lesser endowed like myself and especially younger men out there who may not have had a lot of sexual opportunities yet… Tip # 4: Recognize the Benefits of Being Small… I can only speak for myself here, but one huge benefit i have found of having a small penis is the amount of anal sex i have been fortunate to have over my lifetime. I have never, ever been with a woman who didn’t enjoy it with me, even the ones who hadn’t ever tried it before, or were scared, or were just curious, or had previously bad/painful experiences tried it with me knowing if they were ever going to try it again and enjoy it, having the opportunity with a small penis was going to be their best chance of a fun experience.

    They have all said its definitely because of my size or lack of it, the fact they can relax and especially not fear any pain or discomfort, they need minimal warming up to it, that i can usually be as aggressive as i like etc. are some of the reasons why they have liked it. Where in the past most had at best mildly enjoyed it or even just outright disliked it as their partners were too large for them to enjoy it. I realize these tips were more for vaginal intercourse, but i think that small endowed men should realize there are a few extras benefits as well that well endowed men may not get to enjoy.

    Slinky

  2. silver price Says:

    Your partner lies down on her stomach with her your legs straight but spread slightly. Her arms should be resting at her sides or stretched out in front of her. Stretch your body over hers, resting on your elbows so you don’t place all your weight on her. Then positions your legs outside her legs. As you enter her, your partner closes her legs and crosses them at the ankles.

    • J Says:

      Thanks silver price. I liked your description of this position and I’ve always enjoyed having a woman “doggie style”! My new girlfriend and I are still learning a lot about each other and when she discovered I had a little penis, one of the first things we discussed was sexual positions. We hoped that maybe a few could help improve the amount of “fullness” and depth I had to offer and also get “closer” to what she had previously been accustomed to. When I talked about this position, she giggled and said, “I don’t think so”. When I asked her why, her response was, “You’re too little for doggie style….you’ll just keep slipping out!” I was intrigued because I’m sure as you know, this position IS definitely one of the better ones to help maximize the “depth” on the downward strokes from a hard little penis. I felt I needed to prove to her my “abilities” from this position, (we’re both so competitive!!). So, recently one night after having several drinks to “set the mood”, I had her lie on her stomach & tuck a few pillows under her lower belly which “pooched” her butt up nice & high for a rear entry approach! mmmmm I love how inviting that looks! Well, almost as soon as I started entering her, my little hardon started to go soft and out it slipped!!! Of course she giggled as I began rubbing my penis on her slit and ass cheeks to bring it back to “life”. Soon I was ready for a second try and just like the first, within minutes, out it slipped out again…greeted by more giggles and this time a, “See I told you – you are too little.” When I placed the head of my semi-hard dick back onto her pussy lips for a third attempt, she simply pushed her belly down into the pillows and squeezed her legs closed saying, “Oh no no little boy, you’ve had your shot, now go get me Luke, (her name for one of her fat – 9″ long dildos). It’s his turn now and I KNOW you won’t let him slip out – right?!….at least not until I TELL YOU to take him out….but that’ll be only after I’ve cum all over him!” Needless to say, it turned out to be a damn good night after all!!!

  3. Charlie Says:

    This is probably the best post on small penis positions on the internet. Thank you so much!
    Can you add pictures for each positions as well? I’m having a hard time to undersand some of the positions. Thanks again!

    • play613796 Says:

      Hi Charlie! Welcome to the blog and thanks for the comments. I’ll have to see if I can add illustrations, but when I attempted to initially the formatting didn’t hold. In the meantime, you could probably Google search each position and locate examples. They’re all fun!

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