“Outing” is one of those fascinating topics that I have learned about through interaction on the blog. It still amazes me just how many guys want to be “outed.” When I think about outing, there are essentially two kinds of outing that we have talked about: (1) being outed by your female partner, or (2) self-outing. To me, the difference is when you are outed by your partner it’s clear it’s about his erection size, while self-outing on nude beaches or in showers or locker rooms, guys are typically in a soft state which leaves some doubt as to the real penis size since there are “growers and showers.” Thus for Steve, while self-outing has little appeal, I know being outed by me is much more exciting and powerful for him.
I have known Steve has wanted to be “outed” for some time now, and while I wasn’t opposed to it at all, I really hadn’t had the opportunity… until recently. But that has all changed now, because he has been outed!
This is how it all came about. I got a call from one of my best friends who was having some relationship issues and she desperately wanted to talk with me about them. We decided to have a GNO (Girls Night Out) so we could catch up and she invited me over last weekend to spend the night.
I have known her for about 15 years of which she has been married for the past 14 years. We have gone out with them as couples, and have often gone to strip clubs together, after dinner, just to have a little titillating excitement and fun. She is tall, has a great body, fun personality and guys are always attracted to her. Despite the fact that we are about 15 years difference in age, whenever we are together, people often think we are sisters. We are likeminded sexually and can talk about anything and everything.
We went to a local bar and I quickly found out what was troubling her. While she loves her husband, she was not getting the amount of sex that she needed, and her husband just wasn’t giving her the kind of attention that she craved either. But, one of her co-workers was giving her plenty of attention, and she admitted that she even wanted to have sex with him. She was torn about what to do, and had even confessed all of this to her husband – including that she wanted to have some wild sex with the other guy. The interesting thing is, he didn’t say no. They have actually talked about a 3-some before with another woman. She also told me that he was very submissive.
At that point, I said, “Well, maybe he’s a cuckold?” She looked at me with a quizzical expression and said, “A what?” I said, “A cuckold, a guy that wants his wife to have sex with other men, and sometimes they even like to watch.” I know I really surprised her when I said, “Steve is a cuckold, and wants me to experience big cock sex” She was surprised and smiled, and said,“Really?”
She then said that her husband was big and held her hands apart and said that he was about “this big.” The distance seemed to be about 7-8 inches. I then held up one hand, just a finger and thumb, about 4″ apart and said this is how big Steve is. I went on to explain that Steve wanted me to experience big cock sex because I had never had it, and I admitted that I really wanted it too. I told her that my biological clock is ticking and I said, “If I will ever experience big cock sex, it’s now or never.” I continued on and said, “Even though Steve has a very small penis, he IS an oral master.” She just smiled, and said, “That’s important to me too!”
She admitted that a big cock was a necessity for her and that her first partner was huge and he “ruined her” I asked her how she knew this guy who was hitting on her was big, and she said, “I checked out his package.” Just to be clear, I didn’t encourage her to have sex with the guy who was hitting on her, but what I did encourage her to do was to talk more about what she was feeling with her husband and see where that led. I also reiterated the obvious potential pitfalls of “swimming in the company pond” as it were.
To be honest, being able to have such an open and honest discussion about relationships, sex, and penis size was awesome. I actually felt it was liberating in a way, because it gave me a chance to talk to another woman about my desire to experience big cock sex, and she totally understands why I’m VERY curious about it. In a way, I think she was even somewhat envious that Steve and I have a cuckold relationship that will allow for this to happen.
How did I feel about “outing” Steve? It was a major turn on for me, primarily because I knew how much it would turn him on, and it sure did. At one point she had to use the restroom, and when she excused herself, I sent Steve a selfie of the two of us smiling and obviously feeling pretty good after I don’t know how many drinks, and I simply added, “You have been outed!” With a smiley face! His reaction was, “OMG, really?” I simply responded back with “Yes little cuck.” I know it tortured him to have to wait for all the details until I got home the next day!
Steve’s Reaction in his own words:
I was incredibly and immediately aroused! We had talked about outing before, but I never knew if it would happen or not, and I honestly didn’t even know if it would be as erotic in reality as it was as a fantasy. But, it was even more exciting in reality. Of course, I naturally wanted to know all of the details, but I would have to wait until the next day to find them all out. In the meantime, I was awake all night dying to hear them.
The person she outed me to was also perfect in every way. Because she is a close friend, I felt entirely confident that she wouldn’t “broadcast” my lack of endowment to the entire civilized world. She is also very attractive, and highly sexual. But, probably the best part of all is, she is sexually honest about being a “Size Queen” who places a premium on cock size for sexual satisfaction. That made it all the more erotic than if she had “outed” me to someone who was ambivalent about cock size. There is also something about another women not only knowing that you have a very small penis, but also knows your exact erect penis size measurement that is incredibly exciting too. The fact that she knows I only have a 4” erect penis is intimate knowledge about me that she will always possess, and there is something about that which is a major turn on for me.
The interesting thing about all of this is my BF and I have been texting each other nonstop ever since. We have concluded that we need to have another “GNO” just to talk about the last Girls Night Out! We also decided that the next time we get together that it should be at my place. This of course will take Steve’s “outing” to the next logical step – he will be around the woman who knows he has a little 4” penis!
So, what do the rest of you think about our little “outing” adventure?