Grading Your Wife’s Sexuality – Does She Deserve Her Degree?

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Since this is a “Love Small Penis” blog, it’s only natural we would spend most of our time talking about our small penises, but we rarely talk about our wives or girlfriends.  So, I thought it would be fun to turn the tables and mix things up, and have you reflect (in a lighthearted way) on your wives/partners overall sexuality and sexual capabilities.  This of course discounts all of the other intangibles that make her a great wife or partner, such as she’s a great companion, wonderful mother, etc.  Let’s look solely at her sexuality and sexual attributes.

So, with that in mind, please answer the following questions.

  • How would you grade your wife/partner’s overall sexual attractiveness?

Grade A – She is super-hot, in fact sizzling!

Grade B – She is definitely hotter than average

Grade C – She is probably average, but pleasantly so

Grade D – Honestly, I would have to give her a “D” – and that’s not her cup size!

Grade F – Can I trade her in? (:

  • What best describes your wife/partners appearance? In other words, how does she normally dress?

Grade A – Sexy, hot, usually showing cleavage

Grade B – Provocative, but still tasteful

Grade C – Like the School Librarian –not that there’s anything wrong with that!

Grade D – Nice, but too conservatively

Grade F – She dresses frumpy or from the last century

  • What is your wife/partner’s most attractive feature and why do you think so?
  • Eyes
  • Hair
  • Breasts
  • Ass
  • Legs
  • If another guy see’s your wife for the first time, what do you think he would zero in on, and why?
  • Eyes
  • Hair
  • Breasts
  • Ass
  • Legs
  • How would you grade your wife/partner’s sexual creativity and imagination in the bedroom?

Grade A – She is totally creative and has a vivid imagination!

Grade B – Sorry dude, she is probably more creative than your wife! :)

Grade C – She is somewhat creative

Grade D – She is stuck in her sexual box and too predictable

Grade F – She has no sexual imagination at all!

  • How would you grade your wife/partners ability at performing oral sex?

Grade A – She deep throats, swallows and asks for more!

Grade B – She deep throats but does not swallow

Grade C – She sucks my penis OK, but doesn’t rock my world

Grade D – She sucks my penis reluctantly

Grade F – Oral sex?  You’re joking right?

  • How sexually confident is your wife/partner?

Grade A – She is supremely confident and it shows!

Grade B – She is very confident

Grade C – She’s somewhat confident but not overly so

Grade D – She lacks sexual confidence due to a body image/other perceived problem

Grade F – She has no sexual confidence at all

  • How often does she want sex?

Grade A – Daily, she is insatiable!

Grade B – Twice a week or more, she thinks about sex a lot!

Grade C – Weekly

Grade D – Monthly or less, she is not very sexual at all

Grade F – Rarely.  She just doesn’t have a sexual appetite

  • How would you grade your wife’s ability to give you SPT?

Grade A – The best!  Hell, she invented it!

Grade B – Definitely better than average

Grade C – OK, but not very imaginative.

Grade D – Mediocre.  She will do it if I give her a script, otherwise forget it.

Grade F – She has no idea what SPT is, and would have no interest in it!

  • How would you grade your wife’s overall sexual performance in the bedroom?

Grade A – She’s outstanding – the best!

Grade B – She’s is definitely better than average

Grade C – She’s probably about average –not great, but not bad either

Grade D – She is below average and there is definitely room for improvement!

Grade F – Sex?  What’s that?

So, the last question is, does your wife/partner have her degree, or does she have more “course work” to do?  :)

Do You Wish You Had A Smaller Penis?

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I think it is fairly safe to say that virtually all small endowed guys, at one time or another, have wished, dreamed or fantasized about having a bigger cock.  Personally, I know there were times in my life when I would have done anything to have a big, 9” X 6” cock.  The prospect of being able to project the raw, masculine power of a big cock in the bedroom held a great deal of fascination and appeal for me.  I no longer feel that way now, and am actually quite comfortable and content having a small one, but I can’t deny that there was a time when I fantasized about having a big, stud cock.

A few weeks ago, my wife posted the article, Would You Rather Have a Big Cock or a Small Penis (With Teasing)?”  This article was a result of a question one of our male viewers posed to my Hotwife and we both thought it was a fascinating question.  In her response, she left no doubt that she preferred my small one – with teasing.  For her, the sexual and relationship possibilities of me having a small one (with teasing) are simply far greater than if I had a large penis even though it might be more sexually satisfying.  The reality is, she simply loves all of the SPT-related activities, and the added sexual tension and excitement we have as well as my laser focus on her.  So, when I thought about her answer, it honestly didn’t surprise me at all.  Indeed, you can have a lot of fun with a little penis, and I can tell from the positive attitude of many of our “little” followers, that they know this is true too!

Recently, a number of small endowed men have indicated through comments on the Blog, and via personal emails, that they wished that they were even smaller than they were.  We both found this to be a fascinating admission.   I think this notion would thoroughly confuse a lot of people, especially women.  I believe most women would assume that if a guy had a small penis and he could change its size, he would automatically opt for a bigger one.  Interestingly enough, we have even had one woman pose us this same question, because her husband had confessed this to her and she was curious how common it was.

So why would a guy who already self-identifies as having a small penis want to have an even smaller one?   We have thought about this and can only think of two reasons why a guy might actually want to have a smaller penis.  First, let’s say a guy really craves SPT, but he has a 6”+ penis, and his wife isn’t willing to give him SPT because she thinks his penis is big enough as it is.  So, he fantasizes about being smaller so that his wife would be more willing to give him SPT.  Similarly, maybe the guy has a cuckold fantasy that involves seeing his wife with a man who is very well endowed, but maybe because she already considers him adequately endowed, she is not interested in exploring this activity.  Thus, he fantasizes about being smaller so she might seriously consider it.  The only other example I can think of when a guy might actually wish he was smaller, is if he has a huge cock, and most women he has been with considered it too large. While this is rare, I have actually heard a few larger guys admit this.

So here are the questions of the day to both the men and women out there:

  • Have you (or your partner) ever wished your (his) penis was actually smaller than it is?
  • If so, why did you (or he) fantasize about it being even smaller?
  • If so, what size are you, and what size would you like to be?

As always, feel free to add any other thoughts on the subject!

 

What Happens When You Can’t Feel His Small Penis?

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I intentionally chose this photo to make a point.  It really isn’t a woman’s fault if a guy doesn’t have a big cock.  But it also isn’t a man’s fault if a woman has a big pussy.  Why does it have to be anyone’s fault if there is a size mismatch?

Piggybacking on the article about pussy size, I thought this topic was especially pertinent and timely.  We received an email not long ago from an obviously younger, smaller endowed guy who was quite upset.   He placed ALL blame about his small penis size on women. He blamed women for having big pussies, and he actually felt a woman should NEVER use a dildo and be completely content with a small penis.  Well, some women are content with a small one, but some of us also enjoy a larger dildo too, and if we do, what’s so wrong with that?   What this young man failed to understand is, when you’re in a relationship, it shouldn’t be a “blame game.”  What it should be about is good, honest and healthy communication about all matters, including sexual issues.

So back to the question of this article, what should a woman do if she can’t feel her partner’s cock?  By the way, there can be a few different reasons why this is likely to be the case.  (1) There may be a complete size mismatch – he’s very small, and she is very big.  (2) The female partner, through age and or childbirth may have been stretched to the point where she can no longer feel her partner.  In both of these cases, the usual solution is normally to use sex toys like a dildo, a penis extension or a strap-on cock to provide the female partner the feeling of fullness she craves.  By the way, there is nothing wrong with this, and we do know for some couples on this blog, they do use sex toys frequently for this very reason, and for them, it serves as an ideal solution.

There is another way this can happen, and that occurs when a couple opts to use a dildo or sex toys first.  In our case, Steve loves the “sloppy seconds,” but when he enters me after our big boy toy, to be honest, I can hardly feel him or I can’t feel him at all, and when I can’t I tell him, and he cums in like two seconds! :-)   But, in his case, Steve absolutely loves it.  It validates his small penis size to both of us, but it really, really turns him on.  It turns me on too! :-)

So, if you are in a relationship where the female can’t feel your small penis, should she refrain from telling you?  Should she fake orgasms?  Or, should she be completely honest with you, and have fun exploring alternate forms of sexual pleasure?  My hope would be that you both have fun experimenting with new things.

Here are your questions to ponder:

For the Female Readers:

(a)  Can you feel your partner’s penis?

(b)  If not, what do you do to achieve sexual satisfaction?

For the Male Readers:

(a)  Can your partner feel your penis?

(b)  If not, how does it make you feel?

(c)  If not, do you use dildos to supplement your sexual activities?

As always, feel free to add anything else you think is relevant here and thank you for your responses!

Why is Male Chastity Appealing?

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As most of you know, we enjoy covering a wide range of topics on this Blog.   Sometimes they are topics we are intimately familiar with and at other times it might be a subject we have little or no knowledge of but we like to introduce it as food for thought.  In either case, we try to present a topic in an objective and thoughtful way, and ask you, our readers to fill in the gaps and tell us what you think about it.

We have a new topic we want to introduce to you this week called male chastity.  We have never discussed this topic on the Blog before, but we were motivated to bring it up for three reasons.  First, we have recently received multiple requests from our followers to discuss it, and we like bringing up topics our readers are interested in.  Secondly, in going back over the blog, we did notice that there had been several references to it previously that had somehow eluded our radar screen.  Plus it was simply a topic that neither my wife nor I had any experience with, but we will also acknowledge that we didn’t fully understand it either.

The third reason we wanted to bring it up is because we have recently been corresponding with one of our blog members about the subject.   Without “outing” him, I will only say that he is highly intelligent, has a very responsible job, and is very articulate in expressing his views on the subject, and we thank him for sharing his story with us.  He and his wife are enthusiastic practitioners of male chastity, and he provided us some valuable insight into why it holds such a fascinating appeal for him and his wife.  So when my wife and I discussed it, it didn’t take us long to decide that this was a topic we needed to cover.

To be honest, that’s the value of this Blog for us and why we have so much fun with it.  We are continually being introduced to wide variety of topics by our followers that we have never previously considered ourselves.  In the case of male chastity, it made us stop and think and ask questions that many of you might have asked yourselves, “Why would someone be interested in this?”  “What guy would want to be locked up in a cock cage, and what woman would want her guy in “lockdown?”  We also wondered, “What’s the appeal and attraction of it for couples?”  We simply didn’t know the answers to any of these questions.

In preparation for writing this article, I read a wide range of male chastity related articles in an attempt to learn more about it.  I quickly learned that just like any sexually related fetish, kink or practice, there are extreme and less extreme versions of male chastity.  Rather than try to explain all of the “variations on a theme,” I have instead chosen to simply try and explain the appeal of it on face value as I understand it.  I will offer my usual disclaimer by stating that I’m certainly not an expert on this subject, and I’m not endorsing or discouraging this practice, but simply offering it as food for your thoughts and comments.

What are the Advantages for Women?

So what is it about male chastity that could possibly appeal to a woman?  We have discovered that there are actually several things about this activity that are potentially very attractive to them.  Probably the single most important one is that the husband’s sole focus is suddenly and dramatically refocused on their wives.  Men who are in male chastity become “locked” (pun intended) in on their wives like never before.  They dote on her and try to please her in ways they may not have before.  But why is that?  The truth is many men are chronic masturbators.   As a guy, I know what happens when I have an orgasm.  It’s like a sigh of relief. I feel content, and there is less focus on my wife because a sexual need has been met.  It doesn’t mean I don’t love my wife, because I do.  The reality is I guess you could say there is less a sense of urgency to meet her needs.  But, if a guy is in chastity he tends to focus in on his wife like a laser beam, and this renewed focus can serve as an aphrodisiac for a woman.

Secondly, it can also potentially improve her sex life.  Why, because when she takes away a guy’s masturbation outlet, his sole sexual outlet becomes his wife.  She always gets his best effort and she gets it whenever she wants it and needs it.  She no longer has to worry about him being “too tired” or wanting to watch the ball game.  Instead, he now has a renewed drive and sexual frenzy.  She also doesn’t have to worry about him stroking off fantasizing about his hot secretary or the busty blonde next door.  She gets his complete sexual attention, and women LOVE being the sole object of their husband’s sexual interest.

A third reason why this may appeal to a woman is that they feel empowered and more in control of the relationship.  The power and control she has cannot be underestimated as many women really enjoy being the “Goddess” or “Keyholder.”

What are the Advantages for Men?

So obviously there are some pretty compelling reasons why a woman might be interested in male chastity, but why would a guy want to be placed in chastity?

Believe it or not, there are also several reasons why guys might want this.  In the SPT Survey we referenced recently, we asked guys to rate several different areas of possible sexual interest.  Surprisingly, over 84% of the guys who have responded to our survey thus far have indicated at least some interest in orgasm denial if even for a short period of time.  That was an astonishingly high number to us, and it begs the question, are smaller endowed guys more likely to be drawn to male chastity than guys of average or above average penis size?   In researching the subject, I found no empirical evidence either way, so I guess it’s impossible to make that inference, but from our own “small” sample size it was definitely eye-opening.  Some guys may not even know why they want it; they just know the idea of being denied an orgasm and/or having their wives control their orgasms, if even only on a short term basis, really does turn them on.

One of the reasons, perhaps strangely, goes back again to masturbation.  Guys do it a lot; sometimes we even feel guilty afterwards.   Have any of you guys ever stroked off but your wife didn’t know about it, and then you felt bad or guilty for doing so afterwards?   By turning over control of this aspect of a guy’s sexuality, it may help eliminate that inner conflict.  This conflict could come for a variety of reasons: (a) Perhaps you’re stoking off while fantasizing about a woman other than your wife, (b) Knowing that if your wife wants sex later that night she will probably not get your best effort, or (c) Recognizing that your own masturbation habits are simply out of control.  Thus male chastity can help keep a guy more sexually focused on his wife.

In addition, some guys, who really think through this concept, may have already recognized that they are not as focused on their wives outside the bedroom like they should be either.   They know it, they feel it, but they are just unsure what to do about it.   So, they come to the conclusion that male chastity will provide them the extra “motivation” or incentive they need to really focus more attention on their wives than they have been.

Lastly, another undeniable attraction for some guys, especially submissive males in a Dom-sub relationship is that surrendering their orgasms to their Dominant female is the ultimate expression of their submission, and as such, is highly arousing for them. Likewise, the Dom in such as relationship is also quite turned on by this dynamic as well.  Yes, a guy can obviously be denied orgasm without going into male chastity, but by doing so, it really does give your Dom more power and control in the relationship.  While I have seen no studies that suggest male chastity is more likely to occur in a Dom-sub relationship, it seems feasible that there is at least some possible correlation.

Male Chastity:  Role Play or a Real Lifestyle Change?

Male chastity is something you can engage in on a part-time, fantasy role play basis that changes things up. Much like SPT or any other sexual practice, it can simply be a fun way of creating a little more sexual tension and excitement in your relationship, and many couples play with it simply as an occasional role play activity.

But for others, they view it as a new “lifestyle” relationship change and enjoy it together. Couples in this category see it not as optional, but as a very important and necessary part of their relationship.  They embrace the advantages listed above and like the ongoing sexual tension and mystery in the relationship.

The bottom line is, if it works for the two of you, whether it’s a role play activity or a lifestyle change, and is fun for both, then there are obvious benefits for the two of you.  The important thing to remember is it is still important, necessary and natural for a guy to orgasm, so it’s best to keep that in mind whether you view this as either a part-time role play activity or a lifestyle change.

So, have our views on male chastity changed?  Yes, primarily because we now have a better understanding of it, and can actually understand why it might appeal to some couples.  As I mentioned above, the thing we both try to keep in mind is just like any sexual fetish or practice, there are basic versions of it and also more extreme. What we presented above are the more obvious reasons why some couples might consider it.  But, if you do an Internet search of male chastity, you will no doubt find references to BDSM, domestic discipline, deeper humiliation, CBT and other more extreme “add-on’s.”  Maybe you see some value in male chastity as described above, maybe you like the more extreme versions of it, or, perhaps you see no value in it at all.  The real beauty of a good sexual relationship with your partner is (especially if you have excellent communication), it allows you to explore a wide range of activities and then decide between the two of you, what works, and what doesn’t.

Now, I would like to ask you our readers what you think about it?  If you don’t have any interest in it, feel free to say so. But, if you are currently engaged in it or would like to be, we would be very interested in seeing your responses to the questions below.

For Both Men & Women:

(1)  Do you engage in male chastity?

(2)  If you do, is it as a part-time role play activity, or as a lifestyle change?

(3)  If you do engage in it, what do you perceive to be the most important benefit(s) for you and your partner?

(4)  If you don’t currently engage in it, would you like too?

(5)  Do you believe there is a correlation between the desire for male chastity and penis size, or do you think there is no correlation at all?

As always, thank you in advance for your thoughtful comments!

Would You Rather Have a Big Cock or a Small Penis (With Teasing)?

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I received an email from one of our readers asking me an interesting question.  He said, would you rather have (1) Steve with a Big Cock, or (2) Steve with a Small Penis – with teasing?  That was actually a great question, and I decided I wanted to share my response with our readers.

If you look at the question carefully it’s not just would I simply prefer Steve with a big one or small one.  If that were the question, I would choose Steve with a big one, but that isn’t the question. When you throw in the important (with teasing) part of the question, it changes everything for me. In this case, I would choose Steve with the small one – with teasing, and I really wouldn’t even have to spend a lot of time deliberating about it, but let me explain why.

If all things were equal, yes, I would prefer a “Big Steve” over a “Small Steve,” but the truth is I would be able to receive a lot of sexual pleasure from either.  But, if Steve had a big cock, I suspect he might not be nearly as focused on me as he is with his small one, and for obvious reasons.  Because he’s small, he knows he needs to compensate, and loves competing with the big ones, and he is so locked in on me and my sexual needs, it’s actually VERY exciting and erotic for me.  For women, it’s more than just a penis size, it really is a combination of things, and because Steve has a small penis, I think that has driven him to really, really want to excel in pleasing me, and as a woman, that’s a major turn on.  Don’t ever discount the mental stimulation for women when it comes to sex.

If Steve had a big cock, there would be no “Love Small Penis” Blog.  The value of this blog to both of us cannot be understated.  There isn’t a day that goes by that we don’t talk about sex.  I also love the comments and emails I get from you “little guys,” and I told Steve recently that they turn me on probably as much as SPT turns him on, and I wasn’t exaggerating.  SPT and all of the associated activities is simply a lot of fun, and even arousing for me too!

Plus another reason why I would choose “little Steve” is, if Steve had a big cock, yes, I would love the big cock sex, but I would actually miss the little penis sex.  Since I have a long, thick dildo I get to enjoy both, so I really do have the best of both worlds as it is.  :-)

I’m curious to know how other women would respond to this question.  Would you “trade in” your husband’s small one (with teasing) for a big one?

To Our “Silent” Followers

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Judging from the traffic we get on this site, we know we have a lot of people who come here and read articles, but don’t always post comments.  People choose not to comment for a variety of reasons.  They may feel uncomfortable responding on a public forum, or they may not want to leave their internet “footprint” on a sexually related blog, or they may simply not want to respond for a host of other reasons.

Whatever the case may be, we would still welcome your feedback and would like to encourage you to send us an email with your thoughts and ideas.  Specifically, we would be very interested in your answers to the following questions:

(1)  What value do you get from our Blog?

(2)  What topics are most appealing to you?

(3)  What ideas or suggestions do you have for future articles?

So, if you ever feel inclined please feel free to contact either one of us. We would enjoy hearing from you.

1Hotwife:  hotwife2013@aol.com

Steve:  play613796@aol.com

 

Thanks again for visiting our Blog!

Cock Comparisons & SPT: A Woman’s Point of View

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As a woman, I have learned a lot about my husband specifically and small endowed guys in general through this blog.  One undeniable reality is they LOVE SPT.  Many of these same men also crave to have their penises compared to large dildos or big cocks, but what is the source of that appeal and why do they want it as much as they clearly do?  Let me try to explain to you why I think this holds such a fascinating appeal to so many men.

When I analyzed the results of Small Penis Teasing Survey, there were several things that really stood out to me.   One of those “eye openers” was the desire on the part of males who responded to have their penises compared with other males or their partner’s larger dildos.  The question was asked of participants to describe their interest in this activity on scale of 0 (no interest) to 5 (very high interest).  Almost 90% rated their interest at least as a 4, and 74% rated it as a 5 (Very High Interest).  I have since collected more survey results, and this activity continues to be consistently one of a small endowed guy’s absolute favorite activities.

The question that must be asked is why do so many small endowed guys like to be compared to other guys who have bigger cocks and what’s the psychology behind it?  This is a fascinating question because I think the prevailing wisdom of most women would be to not want to draw any attention to the fact that their partner didn’t measure up.  Why, because its taboo and they would probably view it as a degrading and humiliating thing to point out about their partners and this is indeed true for some small endowed guys who have not accepted their small penises. Yet, for many guys like my husband and the other men who responded favorably to this question, they do not feel humiliated or degraded at all; rather, they find it to be a source of intense eroticism.  But, why is it such a turn on?  Well, I can’t speak for you other guys out there, but I do know what turns my husband on and why.  When I provide Steve with small penis teasing, it’s verbal validation to him that he doesn’t measure up, and he simply loves it.  I have seen and felt his penis stiffen which is proof to me that it’s an intense source of pleasure for him.   When I compare his little penis with my dildo or other men’s cocks, it takes SPT to a whole new level.  It’s like going from the “Little” League to the “Big” League literally and figuratively.   It’s visual affirmation to both of us that he doesn’t measure up, but he simply loves it!    It’s one thing when a woman teases her husband about being small.  It’s a mental mind fuck for him, but when, for example, she places her much larger dildo next to her husband’s small penis, he just about comes on himself. The reason for this is, he already knows he has a small penis, but when he knows that you see the comparison with your own eyes and acknowledge the vast difference, he is excited like little else because he knows, that you know his “truth.”  You know about his “little” secret, but the fact is, he wants you to know about it, talk about it and remind him about it!

So, SPT and Cock Comparisons actually go hand-in-hand and provide the validation and affirmation that turns a small endowed man on.  But there is more to it than just that.   It has changed the whole dynamic of our sexual relationship.  By expressing his desire, indeed his need for this, he has in a sense, transferred all sexual power and control in the relationship to me, and I love it.  It’s like he wants me to know and acknowledge that I’m settling for less.  For us, this automatically kicks in Steve’s desire to compete for me and to compensate in the bedroom.  I didn’t even seek this power, but it’s almost as if he instinctively knows I should have it, and I have to admit that it is both powerful and exciting to me personally.  He is so much more focused on me, both in and out of the bedroom, and will do anything he can to please me.  To be honest, that is not only appealing to me it is also VERY erotic as well. So it is not only my small endowed husband who is turned on by this, I am as well!   I actually think if more women understood this dynamic there would be a lot more of it.

As a result of the great comments on our blog and many emails I have read from readers, I have definitely become more “cock centric.”  The reality is, I love cocks and penises of all sizes and find them fascinating.  And, as we have become more immersed into a deeper level of SPT, I have also realized I need to be doing even more cock comparisons with real cocks that we see online, in videos and X-rated movies, etc.  If you’re a woman who is already engaging in SPT or would like to, comparing your partners cock with others, will probably turn him on like little else.  If he loves SPT, doing cock comparisons will take it to a whole new level.  So, how do you do it?  Well, here are some possible fun things you could consider doing or saying that will definitely get your husband’s attention:

  • First and foremost, don’t be bashful in expressing to your husband you want to watch some “big cock sex.”  It may be intuitive that X-rated movies obviously feature well-endowed guys, but expressing an interest in specifically wanting to see “big cocks” will definitely get your husband’s attention.  This is especially true if you haven’t been “cock centric” previously.
  • Whenever you see a big one, estimate the size of it, by saying something like, “Wow, I think he’s about 8 inches long!”  Guys are size focused and always think in inches, so when you’re sized-focused, it really turns him on.Plus, it proves to him that you are “in the know” about male penis size.
  • Whenever you see a nice looking, sizeable cock, don’t be bashful in telling your partner what a nice looking BIG cock it is, and compare every detail of it with your partner, and be as graphic as possible.  Your partner will be turned on that you are being so graphic!
  • Along the same lines, if you see what you think is your ideal cock size or the perfect cock, tell your partner, especially if it’s bigger than he is.  He wants to know what turns you on and why, and he might just cum on himself!
  • Don’t be afraid to express a sexual interest in a big cock – even if you’re not interested in one. Why, because it really amps up his competitive drive for you. Saying something like, “I would LOVE to suck that big cock,” or, “I would LOVE to feel that big thing inside me,” will definitely turn him on too.
  • Also, don’t be shy in turning the tables.  Ask him direct questions and engage him in a cock discussion.  Some ideas might include:

o   “Honey, when you see a big 9” cock, what goes through your mind?”

o   “When you see a guy whose cock is soft but still much longer and thicker than yours ever gets hard, how do you feel?”

This is one of those fascinating topics that many small endowed men crave.  If your husband loves SPT, he will probably love cock comparisons.   By frequently comparing your lover’s small penis with big cocks will keep him constantly on his toes and probably fully erect too! :-)

Here are your questions:

Women: 

(1)  Do you compare your husband’s penis with other guys’ cocks?

(2)  If so, what is his reaction?  And if not, what stops you from doing it?

Guys: 

(1)  Does your wife compare your penis with other guys?  If so, do you like it, and why?

(2)  Does she do it enough or would you like it more frequently?

(3)  Do you have any suggestions of other cock comparison ideas that turn you on?

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