We spend almost all of our time discussing the ramifications of having a small penis. Since this is a Love Small Penis blog, it makes sense that we spend the majority time talking about our favorite subject. :)
But equally as important, and something we spend far less time focusing on, is the size of our partner’s pussy. We examined this subject very briefly in the article, “Women: How Do You Feel About Your Own Size,” which was posted on June 27, 2013. Given that we just posted the article on male penis size and had such an overwhelming response, we thought it would a perfect time to revisit pussy size in more “depth.” :)
Let me begin our pussy size discussion by drawing an interesting parallel. Our female contributor Snowblance, has previously pointed out that there are “big penis sensations” and “small penis sensations” and that both are equally pleasurable. I would like to suggest that there are also “small pussy sensations” and “big pussy sensations,” and that both of those are pleasurable too, but for different reasons. Let me explain.
When it comes to the size of a woman’s pussy, I think the prevailing wisdom is that the majority of guys, if you asked them, would say they prefer a small, tight pussy. Why is this usually the case? I think the feeling of resistance and tightness, almost as if the pussy is grabbing the entire cock is a very pleasurable feeling. (Small pussy sensations) Plus, I think many guys want their cocks to feel “big” to their partner. A small pussy can make even a very small-endowed man feel “big” or at least of adequate size. Similarly, I think if you asked most women what the ideal size of a woman’s pussy would be, they would probably give the same answer – small and tight. This is a fascinating topic and even my wife has said in talking to guys over the years, they almost universally have said they prefer a woman with a small, tight pussy.
Ironically, some small endowed men who are into SPT have said that they really get excited if their partner is big, or even if they feel big to them either naturally or through lubrication. This was very surprising to my wife as she assumed that every guy, especially a small endowed guy, would automatically prefer a smaller, tighter pussy, so she asked me to explain the appeal. She was the perfect woman to ask this question to because normally she does have a small, tight pussy – unless she has been well fucked by her longer, thicker dildo first. When she has enjoyed her big dildo first, her pussy feels big. When I enter her afterwards, I slide in to the hilt with no resistance at all, and her pussy feels deeper and wider and stretched to the limits, but it feels intensely satisfying. (Big pussy sensations) I feel really small, and she feels really big, but that contrast feels amazing. She will often whisper to me, “I can barely feel you,” or “You feel SO small,” or “I can’t even feel you at all.” Upon hearing anything resembling those comments, I have the most intense and explosive orgasms ever, and it really turns me on. It’s almost an indescribable feeling.
The interesting thing for me is I can experience both small pussy sensations and big pussy sensations with the same woman – my wife! :) I’m sure other men have experienced this with their partner too, but maybe haven’t even thought about it in that way before. If my wife asked me which I preferred, the small or big pussy sensations, well, if given the choice of going first when her pussy seems smaller and tighter or taking “sloppy seconds” when her pussy feels really big, I would choose the sloppy seconds. Why, because it’s a physical validation to both of us that I have a very small penis, and I simply love the big pussy sensations. That may sound strange to many of you, but I’ll bet it resonates with at least some of you who have little penises. In the end, I guess we all have our likes, dislikes and personal preferences.
Lastly, the pussy is simply fascinating to me and is a marvel of anatomical engineering. It’s also difficult to evaluate the true size of a woman’s pussy because of the amazing ability of it to expand and contract. For example, if you have sex with your partner without any foreplay at all, she might seem small and tight. If you give her a fair amount of foreplay, her pussy might seem average, or, if you fuck her with your “big boy dildo” first and then enter her, her pussy might seem quite large. And, for couples who have been together a long time, your female partner’s size might have changed over time due to childbirth, etc. But, while it may be difficult to evaluate the true size of a woman’s pussy, it’s still fun to contemplate nonetheless.
So, here are your pussy questions of the week, and we would love to hear from both men and women alike:
Questions for Men:
(a) Do you consider your partner’s pussy size to be small, average or big?
(b) Do you wish she were smaller or bigger? If so, why?
(c) As described above, do you prefer “small pussy sensations” or “big pussy sensations” the most and why?
(d) As far as the aesthetics go, do you prefer your partner to be shaved, trimmed or au natural?
Questions for Women:
(a) Do you consider your pussy to be small, average or big? Would your partner agree with your assessment?
(b) Have you ever wished your pussy was smaller or bigger, and if so why?
(c) Are you able to achieve both clitoral and vaginal orgasms through intercourse?
(d) As far as the aesthetics go, are you shaved, trimmed or au natural?
As always, please answer each question by letter, and feel free to add anything else you think is relevant to the topic.